Our approach
We care about healing, growth, and self-discovery
In counselling we will use our therapeutic relationship and what’s happening between us in the “here-and-now” to get to know your patterns in relationship with others outside of therapy. At Room to Grow we believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship to become a “secure base” from which you can learn more about yourself and heal from relational wounds you have from past experiences. We will help you develop a better relationship with yourself in which you are empowered get your needs met in healthier ways in the present.
All therapists at Room to Grow Therapy work using an integrated model of counselling, which means we draw from several schools of thought in our own unique approach. Steph’s work is informed by trauma theory, attachment theory, Internal Family Systems and transactional analysis. As increasing evidence demonstrates trauma is held in the body, Steph incorporates what is being held in the body throughout her therapeutic work, helping clients tap into the rich information our bodies provide us with to enhance the healing process.
Due to the relational quality of the therapeutic work, Steph tends to work with clients on a long-term basis but is happy to work with short-term clients too using more solutions-focused methods. Steph is familiar with 12 Step Fellowships and is used to working alongside these programmes with clients in recovery.
How we work
In therapy we will…
Become aware of the patterns of behaviour and thinking that are keeping you stuck, unhappy or distressed
Discover the roots of these patterns and investigate generational trauma
Equip you with knowledge about the mind-body connection and the nervous system
Help you start to heal from your wounds and discover how to make more supportive choices for yourself
Give you tools to help you with emotional regulation. This in turn reduces levels of depression and anxiety, and our ability to cope with life’s stresses
Help you learn to recognise patterns of self-abandonment and foster better relationships with ourselves. This greatly improves our relationships with others
Help you start to make more authentic choices in life that better align with our values and beliefs.